No to compromising my peace for people pleasing. If someone disturbs your peace of mind, kindly show them the Exit.
No to not putting my earbuds in, world out..walking fast, feeling like a rockstar.(Woah.. it rhymes, I should be a poet).
No to not having a pet. We can't be a family if we are not going to keep a big fat orange cat or a golden dog or any furry friend.
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Say No the people who dim your spark ~
No to reply with ‘K’, ‘Hmm’ ‘Ok’etc. I am highly eligible for good vocabulary. Dry texts - Eww. Texting is an art.
No to online shopping. Unless it's cute. Or useful. Or on a big sale. I am trying my best.
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No to alarm clock. I ended our relationship. I always betray her so I let her go. The things we do for love. (Sleep).
FAYTH✌️.
No to truth or dare, especially dare. It's a scary game.
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No to arrogance. Humility and kindness are way better.
No to self - pity. It's the most addictive, self - destructive non pharmaceutical drug that will give a momentary pleasure as it seperates the victim from the reality but it will always stop you to move forward in your life. (John Gardner).
No to phone calls (except family).Text me like a civilised human being.
Why is the internet so restrictive? Why is it impossible to find a place where you can express yourself fully?
No to missing the chance to quote my favourite lines from a book or a movie. Life is much better when you speak in iconic lines with that deep voice. Main character energy.
No to ignoring the small joys in life. Life's too short to skip over the little things that make me smile.
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Romanticising resistance ,
No to compromising my moral values. Integrity>>> Anything else. Better to stand alone with a spine than follow a herd lead by the spineless.
No to explain a joke. A joke that I have to explain is no joke. It's a statement.
Are women as visual as men are?
No to disobeying my father. His words are - full stop.
No to tea and coffee. I am an Indian and Yes, we do exist without them .
No to chasing. What's meant for you won't need to be begged for - it will always find the way to you. So, walk with dignity not with desperation.
How should you brush your hair when its wet or dry?
Say YES to the fire that makes you glow ~
No to replacing real books with e - books. I have a habit to sniff pages like a bookworm psycho.
No to folding or ironing the laundry right away. It's needs 3 - 5 Business days.
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No to group projects. I like to work alone and Solo suffering is always better.
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No to doubting my cooking skills. What they say - You are busy over here - doubting your MasterChef potential while your family is afraid of your entry in kitchen. Never doubt your potential. Burn them all.(The mad king).
Hi everybody! I have been looking at posts on narcs and narc abuse on here and if has really helped me out a lot. I am currently struggling with my situation and need some advice/support.
I met a narc last year, everything seemed to good to be true. Love bombing, always texting calling and taking me on dates. Everything changed when someone warned me about him out in public in front of him and who he is. This caused a conflict with us and the love bombing seized.
he would tell me that everything is okay and i can come and talk. He would set a time limit on me and kick me out after that.
he would then text me like everything was fine and we hung out again and after that he completely ghosted me for one week. He came back and texted me a week later laughing about the ghosting and acting like nothing had happened.
he continued to text me ( not like in the beginning) make plans with me, then on the day of the plans he would just ghost me. One day he would act interested the next silence.
i contacted him a month later and he acted like nothing happened. He was on a vacation and sent me a picture of another woman ( someone he allegedly met on the trip) to strike a reaction but i never gave him one. After the trip he came to my place and was extremely rude, accusing me of going on dates with a bunch of men. The next day he accused me of being an alcoholic and that he wanted nothing to do with me but said well maybe we can be "friends" then ghosted me
i assumed at this point it was over and i would never hear from him again. He contacted me on the holiday a month later acting like everything was great. We ended up hanging out a month or so later and when we hung out it went well, i thought things were going in the right direction.
after we hung out.. silence. I would try to text him and if he replied it would be very short then he just stopped replying. He ghosted me for almost three months. I thought he was done this time and of course he popped up again like nothing happened. At this point i was getting sick of if so i questioned him as to why he dissapeared and always does this. Of course he had some sob story about a injury and family member dying of cancer. I felt pity for him and he gave me an apology.. so i took him back stupidly.
things seemed to be going smooth for a couple months, of course until his family member died and his injury got better he never contacted me and was distant. Menawhile, i was there for him during the difficult time for him. He lied to me about the funeral and never wanted to chat. I was chasing him and he would always claim nothing was wrong but when i said i thought he used me when he was down he could not handle it and would always tell me he didnt care and to go away. I would get so upset i would try texting him to work it out he would barelt respond and if he did he would not be nice about it.
we did hang out a couple times after that, he would ignore me after. One day i was like hey i think you are seeing someone else, and i was like well ixam seeing someone so no problem if you are he said " buy bye good luck with your new guy stop contacting me" i was devastated and tried to get into contact with him for weeks then i just gave up and accepted it was over. He ended up contacting me a month later acting like everything was fine. He wanted to go out and have drinks i told him i would. He and i both seemed to have a great time. He ends up ignoring me again. I kept texting him trying to figure out what was wrong. He kept saying everything was fine and i said ok can we hang out again? He said maybe i was like why? He just kept saying maybe …
our last conversation we had… i said what is wrong ? He said nothing is wrong everything is fine. I asked him why he keeps saying maybe. He said " maybe but i dont want to see you right now" i said why? He saix " im just not feeling it, if i wanted to date i would" i said why did you contact me less then a week ago wanting to go out? He said i didnt.. even though he did. So i said should i just move on or what? He said whatever you want to do. So i said that he was really confusing me and asked him if he had anything more to say before i move on? My messages were turning green so i panicked he blocked me and reacted irrationally. I said " omg did you block me? My messages are not going through. Even texted him on my work phone asking what was up. And called him twice ( please dont judge me i know it is pathetic i never was this type of girl before him) so he replied and said " Ok I'll block you now" then immedietly blocked me. He has never blocked me before since I have met him he will just ghost. Is this ths final discard aka " grand finale? Did i just push him too far?
this has upset me so much its hard to even function.
Your relucant writer,
No to losing my dramatic and sarcastic side. It's not annoying. It's just that my presence demands a certain kind of attention.
Learn to Burn for Better ~
How long can someone with narcissistic tendencies maintain a facade of fake love before their true self is revealed? Is there a specific trigger or amount of time that causes them to reveal their true nature?
No to travels and trips until it's absolutely necessary. I am perfectly fine at home on my bed with my favourite novel. I hope my cousins and friends understand and stop labelling me as a boring nerd. (Fact - I am the most interesting person in our circle 🤷).
No to ignoring my gut feelings and intuitions. My intuitions always win over my logics. Vibes are real.
No to being 24/7 serious. Life's always fun with some silliness. And I can't even stay serious for more than an hour. It's a personality trait.
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No to letting go of my habits. Reading, Writing and Music are my therapy. How can I give up on them.?
